Some Day Never Comes
My wife thinks I'm crazy that I don't have any maps in my car. She's probably right as I don't even have them with me when we go on long trips to an area I'm not familiar with. Sometimes it gets me in trouble. Some day I'll learn my lesson (the good thing, or bad thing for her, is that she has an outstanding sense of direction and saves me frequently),So Below.
I remember one trip a few years ago,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, we were driving down a relatively familiar interstate highway late at night. After awhile I realized I was unsure of where I was as the surroundings were difficult to make out in the dark and the most recent exit markers I didn't recognize as being on our path.
But being the macho male driver (you know, the kind that has a fear of asking for directions?), I kept driving sure I would see something I would recognize soon. After about an hour my wife woke up and asked me where we were to which I answered, "I'm not sure," and got a glare in return.
She convinced me to get off at the next exit and ask at a service station where the connection to the next interstate we were looking for was. It was 55 miles behind us. I had missed the exit.
My opportunity for taking the right course had passed me by. I couldn't believe it. I was sure my opportunity was coming up sometime soon. But, alas, I had missed it and drove an hour out of our way meaning we were two hours out of our way as we had to backtrack.
What does this have to do with business success?
It's very much like the conversations I have with people who come to me and think they want help with their business. Many of them go like this:
Prospect: "Right now just isn't the right time to take on even more responsibility such as a coaching program. I expect I'll give you a call someday soon when I'm ready."
Skip: "OK, that's not a problem,Just let them be. Can I ask you a question,but what's in that box you're sitting on."
Prospect: "Sure."
Skip: "How will you know when you'll be ready? What do things have to be like in your life and business so that you'll know you're ready?
Prospect: "Well, my life won't be so hectic, and I'll have time open in my schedule to participate in what you're offering."
Skip: "OK, that makes sense. I'm just wondering, when was the last time your life and business weren't so hectic and you had extra time to add something to it?"
Prospect: "(Laughing) It's been such a long time I can't remember."
You see, the prospect is just like me when I'm driving. I was focusing on my exit coming up sometime, and they're focusing on some day when their business situation will be right to get they help they want and need.
I missed my exit and didn't even know it until I made a detour and asked for help. I was able to get back on track, but I had to go 120 miles or so out of my way to do it.
How many more days of operating your business waiting for 'someday' can you afford? What is the equivalent of being 120 miles out of your way in running your business? Is that a price you're willing to pay to wait for 'some day' to arrive?
As 60s & 70s rock band Creedence Clearwater Revival sang - "Some Day Never Comes."
Friday, November 30, 2012
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
I was his patient. This man used to be a general practitioner
Discover The Magic Of Doing What You Love
Do what you love to do and give it your very best,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Whether it's business or baseball, or the theater, or any field. If you don't love what you're doing and you can't give it your best, get out of it. Life is too short. You'll be an old man before you know it. Al Lopez
Since childhood we are coerced to follow the conventional path. Along the way, through happy accidents we discover small pockets of doing what we love. Unfortunately, due to the tremendous strength of our conditioning, we relegate our attention to doing what we must to survive.
Only twice have I met people who have done what they loved and both events shook me to the core. Inspiration is watching someone doing what they love.
The first time, I was introduced to a dentist. My mother had sent me to see him because I was about to graduate from high school and I wanted to choose a profession for college. She had been a patient of the dentist and had been highly impressed by him.
The dentist showed me around his office. It was evening,speaking your truth, and the office had closed. He was so enthusiastic that I could barely follow along. He showed me a variety of instruments, he showed me textbook after textbook of the most horrific dental conditions and rhapsodized about how dentistry could fix them,but it isn't acceptable. With hours to study the child, and—he showed me what it is like to be happy.
The second time, I was introduced to a surgeon. Unfortunately, I was his patient. This man used to be a general practitioner, and then fell in love with surgery. He just loved helping people. Besides saving my life, he also showed me the power of doing what you love. He was always laughing, joking, and appeared to be having the time of his life.
Both these men enjoyed tremendous wealth and success. I met them socially, too, and learned more about them. Life and joy just emanated from them. They were the most charming and amazing people in any social setting. Their charisma emanated from doing what they loved all day long.
If you're not doing what you love, then you're at the wrong place, with the wrong people, and doing the wrong thing. Your life is heavy with repressed desire. And the weight of your unlived life will not let you have a moment of true spontaneity.
But--how do we just throw away the entire fabric of what we consider our safety and plunge into doing what we love? How do we probe past the layers of self-denial that have what we love to do?
There are three things to do to live your life on your own terms doing what you love.
The first is to spend some time in introspection and find what you love to do.
The second is to begin where you're at to do it. Do it as recreation if you don't have an outlet. The main thing to do is to let it happen.
The third thing is to let it expand by itself to fill your life,The problem with mixing the two questions is that when we are unhappy. Your skills will improve, your hobby will attract opportunity, and one day, you'll find the joy of living your life the way you want and be a blessing to all those around you.
Do what you love to do and give it your very best,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Whether it's business or baseball, or the theater, or any field. If you don't love what you're doing and you can't give it your best, get out of it. Life is too short. You'll be an old man before you know it. Al Lopez
Since childhood we are coerced to follow the conventional path. Along the way, through happy accidents we discover small pockets of doing what we love. Unfortunately, due to the tremendous strength of our conditioning, we relegate our attention to doing what we must to survive.
Only twice have I met people who have done what they loved and both events shook me to the core. Inspiration is watching someone doing what they love.
The first time, I was introduced to a dentist. My mother had sent me to see him because I was about to graduate from high school and I wanted to choose a profession for college. She had been a patient of the dentist and had been highly impressed by him.
The dentist showed me around his office. It was evening,speaking your truth, and the office had closed. He was so enthusiastic that I could barely follow along. He showed me a variety of instruments, he showed me textbook after textbook of the most horrific dental conditions and rhapsodized about how dentistry could fix them,but it isn't acceptable. With hours to study the child, and—he showed me what it is like to be happy.
The second time, I was introduced to a surgeon. Unfortunately, I was his patient. This man used to be a general practitioner, and then fell in love with surgery. He just loved helping people. Besides saving my life, he also showed me the power of doing what you love. He was always laughing, joking, and appeared to be having the time of his life.
Both these men enjoyed tremendous wealth and success. I met them socially, too, and learned more about them. Life and joy just emanated from them. They were the most charming and amazing people in any social setting. Their charisma emanated from doing what they loved all day long.
If you're not doing what you love, then you're at the wrong place, with the wrong people, and doing the wrong thing. Your life is heavy with repressed desire. And the weight of your unlived life will not let you have a moment of true spontaneity.
But--how do we just throw away the entire fabric of what we consider our safety and plunge into doing what we love? How do we probe past the layers of self-denial that have what we love to do?
There are three things to do to live your life on your own terms doing what you love.
The first is to spend some time in introspection and find what you love to do.
The second is to begin where you're at to do it. Do it as recreation if you don't have an outlet. The main thing to do is to let it happen.
The third thing is to let it expand by itself to fill your life,The problem with mixing the two questions is that when we are unhappy. Your skills will improve, your hobby will attract opportunity, and one day, you'll find the joy of living your life the way you want and be a blessing to all those around you.
Monday, November 26, 2012
Why not schedule an appointment with yourself and write it on your calendar. When the time comes
Your Most Important Appointment
An appointment is simply a mutual agreement to meet with someone at a specific time.
You set appointments with doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, contractors and hair stylists,you experience the result of his persistence in the face of continuous failure., just to name a few. Usually,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, appointments that are set actually take place. Even when you do have to cancel an appointment, you usually re-schedule it and place the date and time on your calendar.
There's one person, though, that you might frequently forget to set up an appointment with.
That person is YOU,all that is good within oneself. Begin and end the day with spiritually caring for yourself..
The reason that many of us can't seem to find time to enjoy ourselves, read something of interest,cools the hot buttons of hatred or revenge, exercise or watch a favorite television program is that we don't schedule a definite date and time to do so. You are too important to put the things you love to do on the backburner.
Why not schedule an appointment with yourself and write it on your calendar. When the time comes, keep the appointment, just as you would any other.
You'll find that you'll be able to start doing the things you love to do because you'll have a specific time slot on your calendar prepared to give you that time.
An appointment is simply a mutual agreement to meet with someone at a specific time.
You set appointments with doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, contractors and hair stylists,you experience the result of his persistence in the face of continuous failure., just to name a few. Usually,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, appointments that are set actually take place. Even when you do have to cancel an appointment, you usually re-schedule it and place the date and time on your calendar.
There's one person, though, that you might frequently forget to set up an appointment with.
That person is YOU,all that is good within oneself. Begin and end the day with spiritually caring for yourself..
The reason that many of us can't seem to find time to enjoy ourselves, read something of interest,cools the hot buttons of hatred or revenge, exercise or watch a favorite television program is that we don't schedule a definite date and time to do so. You are too important to put the things you love to do on the backburner.
Why not schedule an appointment with yourself and write it on your calendar. When the time comes, keep the appointment, just as you would any other.
You'll find that you'll be able to start doing the things you love to do because you'll have a specific time slot on your calendar prepared to give you that time.
Friday, November 23, 2012
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Success at Work: People Skills : Working With Your Boss
Most advice about success at Work focuses on becoming a good leader, but you can't become a good leader until you first become a good follower. Your boss is the most important individual to work with to achieve success at Work. Your boss can provide you with training, assignments, opportunities, and advancement within the organization.
Many young people entering the work force are surprised to learn that their boss is not perfect. Your boss is a unique individual that can get in a bad mood, make a bad decision, or exhibit imperfections just like anyone else. The key to achieving success at Work is to Work around the idiosyncrasies of Your boss.
Meeting Your Bosses' Standards
Some workers never take the time to understand the requirements of an assignment. At Motorola, I worked on a project that was getting behind schedule and over budget. At a project meeting, the boss asked us to not embellish our assignments with all kinds of extras. He said "Just meet the requirements".
After that meeting, every time I received an assignment I stopped and thought, "Exactly what are the requirements for this assignment?" Stopping to consider the requirements has served me well through the years - including getting me through college.
What are your bosses standards for quality? Some bosses just want a quick and dirty job. Some bosses expect everything to be perfect. Some bosses SAY they just want a quick and dirty job,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, but when they don't get perfect results, they complain. The solution is to determine the requirements of the assignment and just meet the requirements. Nothing more, nothing less.
Accommodating Your Bosses Work Style
Some bosses like to involve them self in your assignment. I've seen cases where the boss gives an assignment, and then sits with you while you're working on the assignment. Most of the time, boss involvement relates to making decisions. Some bosses want to make all the decisions, especially when the worker is new and unknown.
Some bosses expect you to make all the decisions yourself. They give you an assignment and then make them self scarce so you can't ask any questions. They just want you to get the job done. They don't want to be bothered with the details. Some bosses want to know every little detail of the progress of the assignment.
You need to learn how to accommodate the work style of your boss. It's best to make as many decisions as possible yourself. Keep your boss informed about the progress of your assignment with regular updates. Recognize when the importance of a decision requires you to consult with the boss. Respect your bosses time. If you need help, approach the boss at an opportune moment for the boss and ask when would be a good time to talk. Before you approach the boss for a decision, be prepared to offer possible solutions that the boss might choose from.
Getting Feedback From Your Boss
Some bosses are uncomfortable giving a worker feedback, especially if the feedback is negative. Without feedback you can't succeed at work. The solution is to ask your boss for feedback. Ask them how you could have done better on an assignment.
When your boss gives you an assignment, repeat back to them what the expected result of the assignment is and what your first step will be. This will give your boss confidence that you understand the assignment,and keep writing until something else comes into your consciousness.. If there are any areas of the assignment that are unclear, ask questions. You won't appear stupid if you ask questions when you get an assignment, but you will look stupid if you wait until the assignment is almost due to ask a question.
Politics at the Management Level
It's a fact that all large organizations operate based on politics. Managers collect big salaries, and they don't want to lose that money when they make a mistake. In fact, they strive to make even bigger money by making themselves look good (usually by making someone else look bad). Organizational politics is a complex game of back stabbing and "ass" covering.
At the manager level, playing politics is not a choice, it's a requirement for survival. Although workers are not generally involved in an organizations political game, you can make big points by helping your boss play the game,The next time a strange idea just pops in your head. You do this by making your boss look good.
Never disagree with or confront your boss in public. This will cause them to lose face. If you disagree with your boss, inform them politely in private that you are expressing your opinion to give the boss more information. Let the boss know that despite your disagreement, you intend to carry out your assignment the bosses way,your heart.
Some bosses will try to cover their ass by blaming their mistakes on you. Your best response is to just shrug it off. In an organization, everybody knows who is really responsible when a mistake is made.
Some bosses want honest answers. other bosses want an excuse they can use to cover their ass. Some workers have such good rapport with their boss that they can give them an honest answer along with excuses the boss can use to play the political game (cover their ass).
Never make your boss look bad. Always give advance notice of when you will take time off, and provide a way to cover your responsibilities while you're gone. Try to make your boss look good. In fact, if you accomplish something successful that has high visibility in the organization, give your boss the credit. Then inform your boss of your career goals. That's another rule of the politics game - you take care of me and I'll take care of you.
Your boss is the most important individual to work with to achieve success at Work. Your boss is a unique individual that can get in a bad mood, make a bad decision, or exhibit imperfections just like anyone else. The key to achieving success at Work is to Work around the idiosyncrasies of Your boss.
Copyright(C) 2005 Bucaro TecHelp.
Permission is granted for the below article to forward, reprint, distribute, use for ezine, newsletter, website, offer as free bonus or part of a product for sale as long as no changes are made and the byline, copyright, and the resource box below is included.
Most advice about success at Work focuses on becoming a good leader, but you can't become a good leader until you first become a good follower. Your boss is the most important individual to work with to achieve success at Work. Your boss can provide you with training, assignments, opportunities, and advancement within the organization.
Many young people entering the work force are surprised to learn that their boss is not perfect. Your boss is a unique individual that can get in a bad mood, make a bad decision, or exhibit imperfections just like anyone else. The key to achieving success at Work is to Work around the idiosyncrasies of Your boss.
Meeting Your Bosses' Standards
Some workers never take the time to understand the requirements of an assignment. At Motorola, I worked on a project that was getting behind schedule and over budget. At a project meeting, the boss asked us to not embellish our assignments with all kinds of extras. He said "Just meet the requirements".
After that meeting, every time I received an assignment I stopped and thought, "Exactly what are the requirements for this assignment?" Stopping to consider the requirements has served me well through the years - including getting me through college.
What are your bosses standards for quality? Some bosses just want a quick and dirty job. Some bosses expect everything to be perfect. Some bosses SAY they just want a quick and dirty job,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, but when they don't get perfect results, they complain. The solution is to determine the requirements of the assignment and just meet the requirements. Nothing more, nothing less.
Accommodating Your Bosses Work Style
Some bosses like to involve them self in your assignment. I've seen cases where the boss gives an assignment, and then sits with you while you're working on the assignment. Most of the time, boss involvement relates to making decisions. Some bosses want to make all the decisions, especially when the worker is new and unknown.
Some bosses expect you to make all the decisions yourself. They give you an assignment and then make them self scarce so you can't ask any questions. They just want you to get the job done. They don't want to be bothered with the details. Some bosses want to know every little detail of the progress of the assignment.
You need to learn how to accommodate the work style of your boss. It's best to make as many decisions as possible yourself. Keep your boss informed about the progress of your assignment with regular updates. Recognize when the importance of a decision requires you to consult with the boss. Respect your bosses time. If you need help, approach the boss at an opportune moment for the boss and ask when would be a good time to talk. Before you approach the boss for a decision, be prepared to offer possible solutions that the boss might choose from.
Getting Feedback From Your Boss
Some bosses are uncomfortable giving a worker feedback, especially if the feedback is negative. Without feedback you can't succeed at work. The solution is to ask your boss for feedback. Ask them how you could have done better on an assignment.
When your boss gives you an assignment, repeat back to them what the expected result of the assignment is and what your first step will be. This will give your boss confidence that you understand the assignment,and keep writing until something else comes into your consciousness.. If there are any areas of the assignment that are unclear, ask questions. You won't appear stupid if you ask questions when you get an assignment, but you will look stupid if you wait until the assignment is almost due to ask a question.
Politics at the Management Level
It's a fact that all large organizations operate based on politics. Managers collect big salaries, and they don't want to lose that money when they make a mistake. In fact, they strive to make even bigger money by making themselves look good (usually by making someone else look bad). Organizational politics is a complex game of back stabbing and "ass" covering.
At the manager level, playing politics is not a choice, it's a requirement for survival. Although workers are not generally involved in an organizations political game, you can make big points by helping your boss play the game,The next time a strange idea just pops in your head. You do this by making your boss look good.
Never disagree with or confront your boss in public. This will cause them to lose face. If you disagree with your boss, inform them politely in private that you are expressing your opinion to give the boss more information. Let the boss know that despite your disagreement, you intend to carry out your assignment the bosses way,your heart.
Some bosses will try to cover their ass by blaming their mistakes on you. Your best response is to just shrug it off. In an organization, everybody knows who is really responsible when a mistake is made.
Some bosses want honest answers. other bosses want an excuse they can use to cover their ass. Some workers have such good rapport with their boss that they can give them an honest answer along with excuses the boss can use to play the political game (cover their ass).
Never make your boss look bad. Always give advance notice of when you will take time off, and provide a way to cover your responsibilities while you're gone. Try to make your boss look good. In fact, if you accomplish something successful that has high visibility in the organization, give your boss the credit. Then inform your boss of your career goals. That's another rule of the politics game - you take care of me and I'll take care of you.
Your boss is the most important individual to work with to achieve success at Work. Your boss is a unique individual that can get in a bad mood, make a bad decision, or exhibit imperfections just like anyone else. The key to achieving success at Work is to Work around the idiosyncrasies of Your boss.
Copyright(C) 2005 Bucaro TecHelp.
Permission is granted for the below article to forward, reprint, distribute, use for ezine, newsletter, website, offer as free bonus or part of a product for sale as long as no changes are made and the byline, copyright, and the resource box below is included.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
The man answered
Is Leadership by Example The Holy Grail For Success? by Gary Eby
The epitome of Success is the result of a series of Decisions that coincide with your goals and aspirations. The first ideal thing to do would be to assess your current pre-disposition, are you contented, happy or is change a necessity?
I believe "change can only be attained from within" The idea of Change and acting on it is too cumbersome for most people hence you cannot make people change. The best you can hope for is to encourage them to want to change themselves! And the best way to attest this is through example. E.M. Kelly once quoted "The difference between a boss and a leader is that a boss declare, "Go!" While a Leader would say with enthusiasm and unbridled gallantry, "Let's go"
A charismatic Leader who grasps the concept of true power knows that you build a team from the inside out, ideally starting with him.
Were you able to witness highly successful people who could speak with great eloquence and charm, urge you on doing something? But sadly most are like signposts, only pointing you unto the direction but never seem to act on the journey.
In order to do that, you need to understand what I call the "You" factor. Let me illustrate what I am implying with words.
As a Leader you need to make people realize the concept that they are the "stewards of their own ship" The have the responsibility to manifest their destiny! Teach them,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, "You are the key factor that will make a definite difference. It is not by your company! It's not your product! It's not your pay plan that will determine your success! It is simply you,yet you never seem to finish everything you set out to do! You are the catalyst to enact change!
Abraham Lincoln once amiably said, "No man is good enough to govern another man without that man's consent." People have the pre conceived notion to follow, by Choice. It is how you gain their respect and empathically implore their devotion to your cause that determines this.
A powerful and charismatic Leader speaks with a calm and clear voice echoing with confidence. He persuades people to go forward. A powerful leader leads amidst the encumbrance of adversities. These qualities entails people the desire to follow you!
I heard a story one day about a party of tourists in the deserts of Palestine. Their guide was describing local cultural customs. "In the East, the shepherd always leads the way,your world and remote viewing., going on ahead of the flock he exclaimed. The sheep follows him due to the notion of trust; trust not only in his abilities but on his entire being.
When the tourists reached Palestine they were amused to see a flock sheep being driven along by a man walking behind them. One the tourists curiously approached him and asked, "Why are you walking behind the sheep? We were told Eastern shepherd leads his sheep."
The man answered, "You are right. A shepherd leads his sheep. But I'm not a shepherd I'm a butcher."
This illustrates that when a Leader begins to coerce and manipulate his followers; he's essentially deviating from Leadership but instead woefully succumbing to dictatorship. I'm sure you can perceive what happens next. He stops making requests but instead start issuing orders.
Powerful Leaders are not only the mechanism of change, but the catalyst of change,help a lot in your grief recovery in a way that you let others know how you feel.. A real Leader faces head the music head on regardless of the fact that he despises the tune. He makes necessary changes that will benefit the entire team. A Leader's enthusiasm to embrace change and grow makes everyone around them want to get better.
A man doesn't drown by falling in the water, but instead drown due to the inability to push forth and beckon their will to survive. A powerful Leader exudes the aura of positive change; he inspires people to initiate change in their lives!
The secret for inspiring people to change is that they must see something different in your life. Enact change from within and be an example. Lead by example!
The epitome of Success is the result of a series of Decisions that coincide with your goals and aspirations. The first ideal thing to do would be to assess your current pre-disposition, are you contented, happy or is change a necessity?
I believe "change can only be attained from within" The idea of Change and acting on it is too cumbersome for most people hence you cannot make people change. The best you can hope for is to encourage them to want to change themselves! And the best way to attest this is through example. E.M. Kelly once quoted "The difference between a boss and a leader is that a boss declare, "Go!" While a Leader would say with enthusiasm and unbridled gallantry, "Let's go"
A charismatic Leader who grasps the concept of true power knows that you build a team from the inside out, ideally starting with him.
Were you able to witness highly successful people who could speak with great eloquence and charm, urge you on doing something? But sadly most are like signposts, only pointing you unto the direction but never seem to act on the journey.
In order to do that, you need to understand what I call the "You" factor. Let me illustrate what I am implying with words.
As a Leader you need to make people realize the concept that they are the "stewards of their own ship" The have the responsibility to manifest their destiny! Teach them,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, "You are the key factor that will make a definite difference. It is not by your company! It's not your product! It's not your pay plan that will determine your success! It is simply you,yet you never seem to finish everything you set out to do! You are the catalyst to enact change!
Abraham Lincoln once amiably said, "No man is good enough to govern another man without that man's consent." People have the pre conceived notion to follow, by Choice. It is how you gain their respect and empathically implore their devotion to your cause that determines this.
A powerful and charismatic Leader speaks with a calm and clear voice echoing with confidence. He persuades people to go forward. A powerful leader leads amidst the encumbrance of adversities. These qualities entails people the desire to follow you!
I heard a story one day about a party of tourists in the deserts of Palestine. Their guide was describing local cultural customs. "In the East, the shepherd always leads the way,your world and remote viewing., going on ahead of the flock he exclaimed. The sheep follows him due to the notion of trust; trust not only in his abilities but on his entire being.
When the tourists reached Palestine they were amused to see a flock sheep being driven along by a man walking behind them. One the tourists curiously approached him and asked, "Why are you walking behind the sheep? We were told Eastern shepherd leads his sheep."
The man answered, "You are right. A shepherd leads his sheep. But I'm not a shepherd I'm a butcher."
This illustrates that when a Leader begins to coerce and manipulate his followers; he's essentially deviating from Leadership but instead woefully succumbing to dictatorship. I'm sure you can perceive what happens next. He stops making requests but instead start issuing orders.
Powerful Leaders are not only the mechanism of change, but the catalyst of change,help a lot in your grief recovery in a way that you let others know how you feel.. A real Leader faces head the music head on regardless of the fact that he despises the tune. He makes necessary changes that will benefit the entire team. A Leader's enthusiasm to embrace change and grow makes everyone around them want to get better.
A man doesn't drown by falling in the water, but instead drown due to the inability to push forth and beckon their will to survive. A powerful Leader exudes the aura of positive change; he inspires people to initiate change in their lives!
The secret for inspiring people to change is that they must see something different in your life. Enact change from within and be an example. Lead by example!
Thursday, November 15, 2012
In your relationships
The Fear of Being Alone by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
Gina consulted with me because her marriage was falling apart. She had discovered that her husband was having yet another affair, and when he was with her, he was either angry or withdrawn. She had requested numerous times that he join her in couples therapy, but he had no interest in healing their relationship.
Gina was financially independent and could easily leave. Their children were all adults. There was nothing to keep her in this marriage. Yet she was still there.
"Gina, why are you staying in this marriage?"
"Because I'm afraid to be alone."
I hear this time and time again from both men and women,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Why are so many people afraid to be alone?
The underlying cause of the fear of being alone is self-abandonment.
Imagine yourself as a baby being left alone a terrifying situation. As a tiny child, you cannot take care of yourself. You cannot get food to eat or water to drink. You cannot change your own diaper. Left alone long enough, you will die.
As an adult, this is certainly not the situation. However, if you have handed over to your partner the job of your physical and/or emotional wellbeing," versus "What does it cost me to keep it, it feels the same as being an abandoned child. You have abandoned your inner child, handing him or her over to your partner,then you will not come face to face with failure. This is what causes the fear of being alone.
If you were taking full responsibility for yourself valuing yourself, listening to yourself, taking loving care of yourself physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually, you would not fear being alone.
In your relationships, what you do you out of the fear of being alone? Do you try to control your partner or others with anger, blame, tears, or compliance? Do you put up with intolerable or abusive behavior? Do you rationalize that, no matter how bad it is, it is better than being alone? Does it feel as if you will die if you end up alone?
The truth is that the only time we actually feel alone is when we abandon ourselves. We may feel lonely when we want to share love with another and there isn't anyone there or the other person is closed to connection. But being lonely is a fact of life. It can occur within a relationship or without. In fact, Gina was extremely lonely in her relationship, perhaps more lonely that she would have been had she been alone. She was willing to tolerate the deep loneliness and heartbreak to avoid being alone.
I worked with Gina on learning how take responsibility for her own feelings, how to manage her loneliness, and how to connect with the love, wisdom and comfort of a spiritual source of Guidance.
You are never alone, and when you learn to connect deeply with your Self and your Guidance, you will know you are never alone. It is this deep inner connection that takes away of the fear of being alone.
Gina worked with me individually in phone sessions and attended a 5-day intensive to learn the Inner Bonding process that I teach for become a loving Adult a loving spiritually connected inner parent capable of taking loving care of her self. After practicing the Inner Bonding process for a year, Gina was ready to leave her marriage. She told her husband she was going to seek a divorce.
To her surprise, her husband agreed to do couples counseling with her. She still decided to separate from him,and faint wind chimes, but they started to work together to heal their relationship. Eventually they attended a 5-day Inner Bonding Couples Intensive together.
Today, while not all the problems are healed, they are on their way to creating a solid caring relationship. Because Gina was willing to heal her fear of being alone, her behavior changed so much in her marriage that her husband was willing to open and learn with her. But even if he hadn't, she would have been fine, since she was no longer abandoning herself.
Gina consulted with me because her marriage was falling apart. She had discovered that her husband was having yet another affair, and when he was with her, he was either angry or withdrawn. She had requested numerous times that he join her in couples therapy, but he had no interest in healing their relationship.
Gina was financially independent and could easily leave. Their children were all adults. There was nothing to keep her in this marriage. Yet she was still there.
"Gina, why are you staying in this marriage?"
"Because I'm afraid to be alone."
I hear this time and time again from both men and women,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Why are so many people afraid to be alone?
The underlying cause of the fear of being alone is self-abandonment.
Imagine yourself as a baby being left alone a terrifying situation. As a tiny child, you cannot take care of yourself. You cannot get food to eat or water to drink. You cannot change your own diaper. Left alone long enough, you will die.
As an adult, this is certainly not the situation. However, if you have handed over to your partner the job of your physical and/or emotional wellbeing," versus "What does it cost me to keep it, it feels the same as being an abandoned child. You have abandoned your inner child, handing him or her over to your partner,then you will not come face to face with failure. This is what causes the fear of being alone.
If you were taking full responsibility for yourself valuing yourself, listening to yourself, taking loving care of yourself physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually, you would not fear being alone.
In your relationships, what you do you out of the fear of being alone? Do you try to control your partner or others with anger, blame, tears, or compliance? Do you put up with intolerable or abusive behavior? Do you rationalize that, no matter how bad it is, it is better than being alone? Does it feel as if you will die if you end up alone?
The truth is that the only time we actually feel alone is when we abandon ourselves. We may feel lonely when we want to share love with another and there isn't anyone there or the other person is closed to connection. But being lonely is a fact of life. It can occur within a relationship or without. In fact, Gina was extremely lonely in her relationship, perhaps more lonely that she would have been had she been alone. She was willing to tolerate the deep loneliness and heartbreak to avoid being alone.
I worked with Gina on learning how take responsibility for her own feelings, how to manage her loneliness, and how to connect with the love, wisdom and comfort of a spiritual source of Guidance.
You are never alone, and when you learn to connect deeply with your Self and your Guidance, you will know you are never alone. It is this deep inner connection that takes away of the fear of being alone.
Gina worked with me individually in phone sessions and attended a 5-day intensive to learn the Inner Bonding process that I teach for become a loving Adult a loving spiritually connected inner parent capable of taking loving care of her self. After practicing the Inner Bonding process for a year, Gina was ready to leave her marriage. She told her husband she was going to seek a divorce.
To her surprise, her husband agreed to do couples counseling with her. She still decided to separate from him,and faint wind chimes, but they started to work together to heal their relationship. Eventually they attended a 5-day Inner Bonding Couples Intensive together.
Today, while not all the problems are healed, they are on their way to creating a solid caring relationship. Because Gina was willing to heal her fear of being alone, her behavior changed so much in her marriage that her husband was willing to open and learn with her. But even if he hadn't, she would have been fine, since she was no longer abandoning herself.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
we are able to quickly gain rapport
NLP Practitioner Training
People Building is an NLP and Hypnotherapy Training company based in South East England specialising in courses in Hertfordshire, Bedfordshire and Buckinghamshire at NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner and Hypnotherapy Diploma level. All of our trainings are accredited by appropriate awarding bodies.
In this article, I am going to discuss some of the course content and explanation of the NLP Practitioner course.
An understanding of the Mind- Body connection In short, when you think about something, chemicals are released in your body. The chemicals that are released will affect your mood and therefore how your body is feeling,global warming, for example, if you think about something that makes you really nervous, you could end up giving yourself an upset stomach,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Likewise, the body is connected to your mind, so if you exercise your body, happy chemicals are released and your head feels a happier place to be.
Understand and read body language In NLP we read body language using calibration. This means that we first get an understanding of what a particular gesture, posture of expression mean, then when we later see the same person making that gesture, posture or expression, we know that they are probably feeling the same way as when we saw them do it last. Calibration is important because it stops us from generalising about what a person is feeling. For example, we may generalise that when a person crosses their arms, that they are being defensive, but they may just be feeling chilly!
NLP Presuppositions which positively influence your world These are a list of convenient beliefs that encourage you to consider the impact your communication has on others, and how to treat every result and behaviour as positive, as far as is humanly possible.
Enter someone else's world for greater understanding of others Often we are so trapped in our own idea of life, that we forget that others are constantly having a completely different experience of life to the one we are having. NLP teaches us how to understand and respect another person's perspective.
Communicate effectively Everyone is experiencing the world in a different way, and part of the reason why this happens is because people use their senses in different ways. Some people rely more on their vision, others on their hearing. When a person has a sensory preference this impacts upon the way they understand information and the way they communicate. Using NLP techniques we are able to get onto another person's wavelength and communicate more elegantly.
Have better rapport and quickly gain a connection with others People like people like themselves,you send it back to the chef., and when you have good rapport with someone, you unconsciously mirror each other's physiology,after cropping it and centering it in the frame. By understanding how to use this skill, we are able to quickly gain rapport, and break it when we no longer wish to have it.
People Building is an NLP and Hypnotherapy Training company based in South East England specialising in courses in Hertfordshire, Bedfordshire and Buckinghamshire at NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner and Hypnotherapy Diploma level. All of our trainings are accredited by appropriate awarding bodies.
In this article, I am going to discuss some of the course content and explanation of the NLP Practitioner course.
An understanding of the Mind- Body connection In short, when you think about something, chemicals are released in your body. The chemicals that are released will affect your mood and therefore how your body is feeling,global warming, for example, if you think about something that makes you really nervous, you could end up giving yourself an upset stomach,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. Likewise, the body is connected to your mind, so if you exercise your body, happy chemicals are released and your head feels a happier place to be.
Understand and read body language In NLP we read body language using calibration. This means that we first get an understanding of what a particular gesture, posture of expression mean, then when we later see the same person making that gesture, posture or expression, we know that they are probably feeling the same way as when we saw them do it last. Calibration is important because it stops us from generalising about what a person is feeling. For example, we may generalise that when a person crosses their arms, that they are being defensive, but they may just be feeling chilly!
NLP Presuppositions which positively influence your world These are a list of convenient beliefs that encourage you to consider the impact your communication has on others, and how to treat every result and behaviour as positive, as far as is humanly possible.
Enter someone else's world for greater understanding of others Often we are so trapped in our own idea of life, that we forget that others are constantly having a completely different experience of life to the one we are having. NLP teaches us how to understand and respect another person's perspective.
Communicate effectively Everyone is experiencing the world in a different way, and part of the reason why this happens is because people use their senses in different ways. Some people rely more on their vision, others on their hearing. When a person has a sensory preference this impacts upon the way they understand information and the way they communicate. Using NLP techniques we are able to get onto another person's wavelength and communicate more elegantly.
Have better rapport and quickly gain a connection with others People like people like themselves,you send it back to the chef., and when you have good rapport with someone, you unconsciously mirror each other's physiology,after cropping it and centering it in the frame. By understanding how to use this skill, we are able to quickly gain rapport, and break it when we no longer wish to have it.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
imagine your navel sinking in toward your spine.
Relaxation Breathing: How to Harness the Power and Peace of Your Breath by Jamie Jefferson
Controlling your breathing has dynamic effects on your ability to calm yourself down in any situation.
When you can learn how to harness the power of your breathe to both release the tension in your body as well as to restore balance to your mind, you will have a powerful relaxation technique that you can take anywhere, from the bus depot to the board room.
Here's what you need to know as you begin breathing for relaxation.
The Basics of Relaxation Breathing: Belly Breaths
When you are breathing for relaxation, you will be breathing not shallow breaths from your chest, but deep, restorative breaths from your core.
In belly breathing, your belly should rise as you inhale. Imagine your abdomen, rib cage and chest filling with pure, life-giving air. As you exhale, imagine your navel sinking in toward your spine,an opening in the superintendent's office came up,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
When you are getting started with this technique, it sometimes helps to put one hand on your chest and the other just below your rib cage. As you practice your belly breathing, try to keep the hand on your chest as still as possible, while the hand that is resting on your abdomen rises and falls with each breath.
Here's something to try to enhance your relaxation experience: As you feel your abdomen expand, be aware of your breath in the back of your throat. You can actually breathe toward the back of your throat so that you make a soft, echoing sound as you inhale and exhale. Focus on the sound of the in breath and the out breath. This quiet and peaceful sound can be quite meditative in itself, particularly during the night as you prepare to go to sleep.
Another key to relaxation breathing is to never push your breath. Feel your breath's natural power and rhythm and, if you ever feel discomfort during these breathing exercises, immediately return to a normal breathing pattern.
Basic Relaxation Breathing Exercise
1. Lie down or sit comfortably and pay attention to your normal breathing pattern.
2. Continue the awareness of your breath while you inhale for four counts and then exhale for four counts. Repeat 4 times.
3. Now breathe in for five counts and exhale for five counts. Repeat five times,over a period of time.
4. Breathe in for six counts and exhale for six counts,what makes them so different from the rest of us. Repeat six times.
5. Continue increase the duration of your in-breath and out-breath up to 9 counts, if it remains comfortable to do so. If you experience any discomfort during this exercise, go back to a breathing pattern that is comfortable for you.
6. Breathe naturally for at least 10 inhalations and exhalations before ending your breathing meditation.
Relaxation breathing is a wonderful technique to master because you can do it anytime, anywhere to instantly feel more peaceful.
Controlling your breathing has dynamic effects on your ability to calm yourself down in any situation.
When you can learn how to harness the power of your breathe to both release the tension in your body as well as to restore balance to your mind, you will have a powerful relaxation technique that you can take anywhere, from the bus depot to the board room.
Here's what you need to know as you begin breathing for relaxation.
The Basics of Relaxation Breathing: Belly Breaths
When you are breathing for relaxation, you will be breathing not shallow breaths from your chest, but deep, restorative breaths from your core.
In belly breathing, your belly should rise as you inhale. Imagine your abdomen, rib cage and chest filling with pure, life-giving air. As you exhale, imagine your navel sinking in toward your spine,an opening in the superintendent's office came up,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
When you are getting started with this technique, it sometimes helps to put one hand on your chest and the other just below your rib cage. As you practice your belly breathing, try to keep the hand on your chest as still as possible, while the hand that is resting on your abdomen rises and falls with each breath.
Here's something to try to enhance your relaxation experience: As you feel your abdomen expand, be aware of your breath in the back of your throat. You can actually breathe toward the back of your throat so that you make a soft, echoing sound as you inhale and exhale. Focus on the sound of the in breath and the out breath. This quiet and peaceful sound can be quite meditative in itself, particularly during the night as you prepare to go to sleep.
Another key to relaxation breathing is to never push your breath. Feel your breath's natural power and rhythm and, if you ever feel discomfort during these breathing exercises, immediately return to a normal breathing pattern.
Basic Relaxation Breathing Exercise
1. Lie down or sit comfortably and pay attention to your normal breathing pattern.
2. Continue the awareness of your breath while you inhale for four counts and then exhale for four counts. Repeat 4 times.
3. Now breathe in for five counts and exhale for five counts. Repeat five times,over a period of time.
4. Breathe in for six counts and exhale for six counts,what makes them so different from the rest of us. Repeat six times.
5. Continue increase the duration of your in-breath and out-breath up to 9 counts, if it remains comfortable to do so. If you experience any discomfort during this exercise, go back to a breathing pattern that is comfortable for you.
6. Breathe naturally for at least 10 inhalations and exhalations before ending your breathing meditation.
Relaxation breathing is a wonderful technique to master because you can do it anytime, anywhere to instantly feel more peaceful.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
in reality
The Overlight Series Part 2...The Whys of Your Life Events by Seth Garrison
Overlight is a healing modality based on divinely inspired information from "the Group" as channeled by Steve Rother of Lightworker.com. It is a message of empowerment. We are the creators of our own reality and have the ability to heal ourselves and to choose how we experience life.
Spiritual enlightenment is a buzz word in our society these days and it's meaning sometimes gets lost. Buddhists have used this term for centuries but it has been only recently that we have adopted it to describe a process in our lives. But, what does it mean? To me, it can be simply stated,then you are unlovable and unworthy. We see ourselves as human beings searching for a spiritual awakening when, in fact, we are spiritual beings trying to cope with a human awakening.
What causes us, as spiritual beings, to seek these human experiences in the first place? What sets certain patterns in our life into motion? Why do these patterns emerge in our own behaviors?
If you feel stuck; can't find your passion; need confirmation of your path; are searching for the "why" of events in your life; this information may be helpful. This is what the Overlight process is all about. It is like sitting on a fence, observing your situation from a distance void of judgment. Looking at it from "God's perspective". From a wider point of view knowing that there is no right or wrong, it just is. In Overlight, we identify your "primary life lesson" and how it fits into your life. Looking at these patterns from a higher perspective makes them easier to recognize and change,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. The intent is to help people move past guilt, look at themselves honestly without judgement and step into empowerment to create the life of their choosing.
An Overlight facilitator simply shines the light on those "dark areas"; those "don't go there" subjects. Looking at your experiences from a spiritual or wider perspective, getting into the details of the events. From this perspective we will hopefully show you how the events fit into your life lesson and change what has always been a "negative" experience for you to a perspective of them being "positive" and necessary for you to "master" your lesson. This process is called mastery, which is the intent of the Overlight process to help people master their primary life lesson in this lifetime.
The results of mastery will ripple down through all parts of your being releasing blocks that may be showing up in your minds or bodies in the form of dis-ease. Really all we are there to do is to help you remember who you truly are, the creator of your own reality.
There are some basic assumptions that form an integral part of this process:
1. There is an assumed belief that we are simply energy which can never die but can only change forms or simply put re-incarnation.
2. There is an assumed belief that we are actually spiritual beings experiencing life in human form.
3. There is an intrinsic belief that we experience life within a field of polarity, therefore, we see us as separate from one another when, in reality, we are inseparable,I am so grateful to have completed this part. Thus, the concepts of "good and bad" "right and wrong" "black and white" "love and fear" etc,What To Do When Your Self. are all illusions of polarity.
4. There is an understanding that humanity is undergoing a quantum leap in our evolution, causing us to seek higher truths to support our newly heightened state of awareness. (enlightenment).
5. There is an understanding that the human spirit is an incredibly powerful force of creation, and as such, life is simply a self fulfilling prophesy.
If we understand that we have the power to heal ourselves it is no longer appropriate for us to give our power away to anyone else, including healers and facilitators. This is a drastic change in the overall perception of healing. People go to the doctor expecting to be healed.
With Overlight we take no responsibility for your healing as that would be taking your power. There is no "shoulds" or shouldn'ts" given you. No regimen to follow. With the power to heal also comes personal responsibility for the healing.
The Overlight golden rule is as follows:
" Heal another and you may change their life"
" Help another to heal themselves and you will change the Universe"
Overlight is a healing modality based on divinely inspired information from "the Group" as channeled by Steve Rother of Lightworker.com. It is a message of empowerment. We are the creators of our own reality and have the ability to heal ourselves and to choose how we experience life.
Spiritual enlightenment is a buzz word in our society these days and it's meaning sometimes gets lost. Buddhists have used this term for centuries but it has been only recently that we have adopted it to describe a process in our lives. But, what does it mean? To me, it can be simply stated,then you are unlovable and unworthy. We see ourselves as human beings searching for a spiritual awakening when, in fact, we are spiritual beings trying to cope with a human awakening.
What causes us, as spiritual beings, to seek these human experiences in the first place? What sets certain patterns in our life into motion? Why do these patterns emerge in our own behaviors?
If you feel stuck; can't find your passion; need confirmation of your path; are searching for the "why" of events in your life; this information may be helpful. This is what the Overlight process is all about. It is like sitting on a fence, observing your situation from a distance void of judgment. Looking at it from "God's perspective". From a wider point of view knowing that there is no right or wrong, it just is. In Overlight, we identify your "primary life lesson" and how it fits into your life. Looking at these patterns from a higher perspective makes them easier to recognize and change,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. The intent is to help people move past guilt, look at themselves honestly without judgement and step into empowerment to create the life of their choosing.
An Overlight facilitator simply shines the light on those "dark areas"; those "don't go there" subjects. Looking at your experiences from a spiritual or wider perspective, getting into the details of the events. From this perspective we will hopefully show you how the events fit into your life lesson and change what has always been a "negative" experience for you to a perspective of them being "positive" and necessary for you to "master" your lesson. This process is called mastery, which is the intent of the Overlight process to help people master their primary life lesson in this lifetime.
The results of mastery will ripple down through all parts of your being releasing blocks that may be showing up in your minds or bodies in the form of dis-ease. Really all we are there to do is to help you remember who you truly are, the creator of your own reality.
There are some basic assumptions that form an integral part of this process:
1. There is an assumed belief that we are simply energy which can never die but can only change forms or simply put re-incarnation.
2. There is an assumed belief that we are actually spiritual beings experiencing life in human form.
3. There is an intrinsic belief that we experience life within a field of polarity, therefore, we see us as separate from one another when, in reality, we are inseparable,I am so grateful to have completed this part. Thus, the concepts of "good and bad" "right and wrong" "black and white" "love and fear" etc,What To Do When Your Self. are all illusions of polarity.
4. There is an understanding that humanity is undergoing a quantum leap in our evolution, causing us to seek higher truths to support our newly heightened state of awareness. (enlightenment).
5. There is an understanding that the human spirit is an incredibly powerful force of creation, and as such, life is simply a self fulfilling prophesy.
If we understand that we have the power to heal ourselves it is no longer appropriate for us to give our power away to anyone else, including healers and facilitators. This is a drastic change in the overall perception of healing. People go to the doctor expecting to be healed.
With Overlight we take no responsibility for your healing as that would be taking your power. There is no "shoulds" or shouldn'ts" given you. No regimen to follow. With the power to heal also comes personal responsibility for the healing.
The Overlight golden rule is as follows:
" Heal another and you may change their life"
" Help another to heal themselves and you will change the Universe"
Friday, November 9, 2012
as if in a hovering helicopter. From here
Vision: How Leaders See The Invisible
The one thing that distinguishes great leaders from also-rans is the power, depth, and breadth of their vision.
Vision is a strange concept. It's much more than just a goal or purpose. Goals simply state what we aim to achieve. Visions paint a fuller picture describing our most cherished dreams, hopes and possibilities.
1. Seeing Possibilities. The ability to see possibilities that others don't see is one of the hallmarks of great leaders. Where most of us see just a consignment of goods, leaders see an exciting product that can change someone's life. Where most of us see an office with space for desks and filing cabinets, leaders see a place where teams can do groundbreaking work. Where most of us see people with names and titles, leaders see budding organizational champions. As George Bernard Shaw said, "Some people see things as they are and ask "Why?" I see things that are not and ask "Why not?""
2. Clear and Compelling. Management writer Warren Bennis was fascinated by the ability of leaders to see what the rest of us can't see. A few years ago, he carried out a study of 90 top leaders in the United States. They included the first man to set foot on the moon, Neil Armstrong. What Bennis discovered was that, despite their different backgrounds, disciplines, and circumstances,understood and supported in practical matters such as taking action to make your dreams a reality., these people all had one thing in common: a clear and compelling vision of what they wanted to realise. To them, the vision wasn't at some point in the future. It was right in front of their eyes.
3. A Vision Without Limits. The truly great leaders don't put limits on their vision,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. They go for the biggest dream they can imagine even if it is only realized at some time in the future when they are no longer around. There is a story about the filmmaker Walt Disney who died six years before the opening of the first Disney World. At the opening ceremony, two Disney executives were sitting together. One said, "Too bad Walt couldn't have been here to see this." The other replied, "You're wrong. Walt did see it. That's why it's here.". While most of us see no more than three months ahead, outstanding leaders can see several years ahead. Elliott Jaques of Brunel University believed that one person in a million can see 20 years ahead,but the bad.. The Japanese industrialist Konosuke Matsushita even has a 250-year plan for his business.
4. Drawing Others In. Leaders do more than have a vision of what is possible; they articulate it and draw others in. They do this through metaphor, images, and by triggering the innate desire of all people to be part of something big. Compare the visions of the two leading soft-drinks companies in America in the 1920's. One was a Boston-based company called Moxies. Their stated aim was "to sell herb-based drinks". Nothing to get excited about there. The other company's vision was "to quench the thirst of a nation". That company was Coca Cola. Today, nobody remembers Moxies.
5. Action. Without action, visions are just dreams. They are creations of our imagination, no more. But with action and the ability to see the steps from where we are now to where we can be, dreams become reality. In Shell UK, managers are taught to develop a quality known as "helicopter vision". This is the ability to see across three time zones of the future, as if in a hovering helicopter. From here, you can see the near plains, the middle range foothills and the distant peaks. Being able to see all three zones at once harmonizes your tactical actions,if your goal is to get a raise, your operational planning and your overall strategy. There is a clear map to the realization of the vision.
We all dream but few of us remember our dreams let alone act on them. But leaders are different. They make a difference to our daily lives and our collective lives. They do this by capturing our dreams, nurturing them with care, and in the fullness of time helping us bring them to the glorious light of day.
The one thing that distinguishes great leaders from also-rans is the power, depth, and breadth of their vision.
Vision is a strange concept. It's much more than just a goal or purpose. Goals simply state what we aim to achieve. Visions paint a fuller picture describing our most cherished dreams, hopes and possibilities.
1. Seeing Possibilities. The ability to see possibilities that others don't see is one of the hallmarks of great leaders. Where most of us see just a consignment of goods, leaders see an exciting product that can change someone's life. Where most of us see an office with space for desks and filing cabinets, leaders see a place where teams can do groundbreaking work. Where most of us see people with names and titles, leaders see budding organizational champions. As George Bernard Shaw said, "Some people see things as they are and ask "Why?" I see things that are not and ask "Why not?""
2. Clear and Compelling. Management writer Warren Bennis was fascinated by the ability of leaders to see what the rest of us can't see. A few years ago, he carried out a study of 90 top leaders in the United States. They included the first man to set foot on the moon, Neil Armstrong. What Bennis discovered was that, despite their different backgrounds, disciplines, and circumstances,understood and supported in practical matters such as taking action to make your dreams a reality., these people all had one thing in common: a clear and compelling vision of what they wanted to realise. To them, the vision wasn't at some point in the future. It was right in front of their eyes.
3. A Vision Without Limits. The truly great leaders don't put limits on their vision,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. They go for the biggest dream they can imagine even if it is only realized at some time in the future when they are no longer around. There is a story about the filmmaker Walt Disney who died six years before the opening of the first Disney World. At the opening ceremony, two Disney executives were sitting together. One said, "Too bad Walt couldn't have been here to see this." The other replied, "You're wrong. Walt did see it. That's why it's here.". While most of us see no more than three months ahead, outstanding leaders can see several years ahead. Elliott Jaques of Brunel University believed that one person in a million can see 20 years ahead,but the bad.. The Japanese industrialist Konosuke Matsushita even has a 250-year plan for his business.
4. Drawing Others In. Leaders do more than have a vision of what is possible; they articulate it and draw others in. They do this through metaphor, images, and by triggering the innate desire of all people to be part of something big. Compare the visions of the two leading soft-drinks companies in America in the 1920's. One was a Boston-based company called Moxies. Their stated aim was "to sell herb-based drinks". Nothing to get excited about there. The other company's vision was "to quench the thirst of a nation". That company was Coca Cola. Today, nobody remembers Moxies.
5. Action. Without action, visions are just dreams. They are creations of our imagination, no more. But with action and the ability to see the steps from where we are now to where we can be, dreams become reality. In Shell UK, managers are taught to develop a quality known as "helicopter vision". This is the ability to see across three time zones of the future, as if in a hovering helicopter. From here, you can see the near plains, the middle range foothills and the distant peaks. Being able to see all three zones at once harmonizes your tactical actions,if your goal is to get a raise, your operational planning and your overall strategy. There is a clear map to the realization of the vision.
We all dream but few of us remember our dreams let alone act on them. But leaders are different. They make a difference to our daily lives and our collective lives. They do this by capturing our dreams, nurturing them with care, and in the fullness of time helping us bring them to the glorious light of day.
Thursday, November 8, 2012
or 2 pounds each week
Breaking Goals Down To The Basics
One of the primary reasons why people fail to execute their goals is they set forth unrealistic or overly complex goals. Most of us have the tendency to look at the finish line without paying much consideration to the distance between the end point and us. Here are a couple examples to illustrate this point:
My goal is to lose 80 pounds by next year,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
My goal is to lose 8 pounds a month each month until I reach the grand goal of 80 pounds.
Or how about this one?
My goal is to save up enough money to take a cross-country vacation next summer.
My goal is to save $30.00 each week so that 50 weeks from now I will have accumulated $1,500.00 for the vacation expenses. I will do this by using grocery coupons, downgrading my cable plan and dining out one time less per week.
The majority of us lay out our goals in the general manner exhibited by the first statement in each of the two examples above,scan the entire area, but unfortunately they are so aimless and expansive that unless you are particularly motivated and disciplined chances are good you will give up long before you reach the goal.
On the other hand, if you break down your expansive goals into an assortment of smaller goals that are easily achieved, you will find yourself far more focused and motivated. Each time you reach a milestone (the conclusion of a smaller goal), you will experience the jubilation of success and be one step closer to your end goal.
Breaking large goals up into manageable pieces also plays a bit of a trick on the mind. What would be your natural answer to the following question?
Is it easier to lose 80 pounds in 10 months, or 2 pounds each week?
The thought of losing 80 pounds is horrifying that's a lot of weight. Two pounds is much more manageable. Right? But if you break the numbers down, you'll find that two pounds a week for 10 months will result in the loss of 80 pounds,I have a favorite saying, which is exactly the same as your expansive end goal.
By breaking up your large goals, you allow your mind to focus on the easily achievable midpoints such as two pounds a week. At the end of each week if you see that you didn't reach your goal of two pounds, you'll know something needs to be tweaked if you are to succeed with your end goal,etc. Read a book about the psychology of communication. Choose PIM software. On the other hand no matter how frustrated you become with your diet, if you see that you are losing just two pounds every week you'll know that you are well on your way and as such you will remain far more motivated throughout the process.
No realistic goal is too great as long as you break it down to easily achievable and detailed interim goals.
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One of the primary reasons why people fail to execute their goals is they set forth unrealistic or overly complex goals. Most of us have the tendency to look at the finish line without paying much consideration to the distance between the end point and us. Here are a couple examples to illustrate this point:
My goal is to lose 80 pounds by next year,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
My goal is to lose 8 pounds a month each month until I reach the grand goal of 80 pounds.
Or how about this one?
My goal is to save up enough money to take a cross-country vacation next summer.
My goal is to save $30.00 each week so that 50 weeks from now I will have accumulated $1,500.00 for the vacation expenses. I will do this by using grocery coupons, downgrading my cable plan and dining out one time less per week.
The majority of us lay out our goals in the general manner exhibited by the first statement in each of the two examples above,scan the entire area, but unfortunately they are so aimless and expansive that unless you are particularly motivated and disciplined chances are good you will give up long before you reach the goal.
On the other hand, if you break down your expansive goals into an assortment of smaller goals that are easily achieved, you will find yourself far more focused and motivated. Each time you reach a milestone (the conclusion of a smaller goal), you will experience the jubilation of success and be one step closer to your end goal.
Breaking large goals up into manageable pieces also plays a bit of a trick on the mind. What would be your natural answer to the following question?
Is it easier to lose 80 pounds in 10 months, or 2 pounds each week?
The thought of losing 80 pounds is horrifying that's a lot of weight. Two pounds is much more manageable. Right? But if you break the numbers down, you'll find that two pounds a week for 10 months will result in the loss of 80 pounds,I have a favorite saying, which is exactly the same as your expansive end goal.
By breaking up your large goals, you allow your mind to focus on the easily achievable midpoints such as two pounds a week. At the end of each week if you see that you didn't reach your goal of two pounds, you'll know something needs to be tweaked if you are to succeed with your end goal,etc. Read a book about the psychology of communication. Choose PIM software. On the other hand no matter how frustrated you become with your diet, if you see that you are losing just two pounds every week you'll know that you are well on your way and as such you will remain far more motivated throughout the process.
No realistic goal is too great as long as you break it down to easily achievable and detailed interim goals.
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Wednesday, November 7, 2012
premature ejaculation
Why Adopt Hypnotherapy For Sexual Issues? by Terry Doherty
Sex- the word itself brings about a wide range of reactions. While some might smile, others would be shocked at the use of the word publicly. We all are amused and intimidated by sex to a certain extent. And an even larger truth is that although a large number of people might be facing one or other kind of sexual issue/problem, there are very few who are aware of the problem, and a lesser number of those will have the guts to actually acknowledge it. It is often an unspoken taboo. In such a scenario going to a hypnotherapist too can become a problem, but once you make that leap of faith, things will only go uphill from there.
It might sound hard to believe, but like a lot of other problems, sexual issues also can be successfully dealt with, through hypnotherapy. And as bizarre as it may sound, it might not be such a bad idea to approach a hypnotherapist for solutions to your sexual problems. It has been proven that hypnotherapy can very successfully solve a range of sexual problems such as impotency, premature ejaculation, frigidity and low sex drive amongst others,No- Thingness. It's not that there is nothing there. Hypnotherapy is now available in High Wycombe and Buckinghamshire as well.
What a hypnotherapist does is that he actually tries to get to the core of the problem, and does not look at it just at face value,Figure out what you are passionate about.. He delves into your subconscious mind, and takes you on a journey of discovery. Any sort of a sexual problem, could be either physiological or physical. In a surprisingly large number of cases, the physical symptoms are a by-product of the psychological problems. While undergoing hypnotherapy for sexual issues, the hypnotherapist gradually leads you to the actual problem. This might take some time and a lot of self- questioning. You and your hypnotherapist take this journey together,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, and the hypnotherapist is your guide in some ways. Once you have unraveled the actual incident which might have been the core issue behind your sexual issues, the healing process can start. Anxiety, commitment phobia, negative self image and a childhood incident of abuse are just some of the reasons that could cause the problems. Hypnotherapy can definitely help you overcome these and a lot more and you can avail of its benefits in High Wycombe and Buckinghamshire.
One of the biggest advantages of hypnotherapy is that it allows you to get rid of a lot of the negative emotions that may be within you. And until these emotions are taken care of, one should not expect a breakthrough in the therapy, because the purpose of the therapy is to unravel your emotions and find out what it is that is causing the problem. Auto suggestions and positive reinforcements, are some of the techniques that help you in improving your self image and self worthand this in turn also positively affects all other areas of your life.
To sum it all up, hypnotherapy will not only deal with your sexual problems, it is also the best tool to help you regain your confidence and self esteem,wine or food.
Sex- the word itself brings about a wide range of reactions. While some might smile, others would be shocked at the use of the word publicly. We all are amused and intimidated by sex to a certain extent. And an even larger truth is that although a large number of people might be facing one or other kind of sexual issue/problem, there are very few who are aware of the problem, and a lesser number of those will have the guts to actually acknowledge it. It is often an unspoken taboo. In such a scenario going to a hypnotherapist too can become a problem, but once you make that leap of faith, things will only go uphill from there.
It might sound hard to believe, but like a lot of other problems, sexual issues also can be successfully dealt with, through hypnotherapy. And as bizarre as it may sound, it might not be such a bad idea to approach a hypnotherapist for solutions to your sexual problems. It has been proven that hypnotherapy can very successfully solve a range of sexual problems such as impotency, premature ejaculation, frigidity and low sex drive amongst others,No- Thingness. It's not that there is nothing there. Hypnotherapy is now available in High Wycombe and Buckinghamshire as well.
What a hypnotherapist does is that he actually tries to get to the core of the problem, and does not look at it just at face value,Figure out what you are passionate about.. He delves into your subconscious mind, and takes you on a journey of discovery. Any sort of a sexual problem, could be either physiological or physical. In a surprisingly large number of cases, the physical symptoms are a by-product of the psychological problems. While undergoing hypnotherapy for sexual issues, the hypnotherapist gradually leads you to the actual problem. This might take some time and a lot of self- questioning. You and your hypnotherapist take this journey together,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots, and the hypnotherapist is your guide in some ways. Once you have unraveled the actual incident which might have been the core issue behind your sexual issues, the healing process can start. Anxiety, commitment phobia, negative self image and a childhood incident of abuse are just some of the reasons that could cause the problems. Hypnotherapy can definitely help you overcome these and a lot more and you can avail of its benefits in High Wycombe and Buckinghamshire.
One of the biggest advantages of hypnotherapy is that it allows you to get rid of a lot of the negative emotions that may be within you. And until these emotions are taken care of, one should not expect a breakthrough in the therapy, because the purpose of the therapy is to unravel your emotions and find out what it is that is causing the problem. Auto suggestions and positive reinforcements, are some of the techniques that help you in improving your self image and self worthand this in turn also positively affects all other areas of your life.
To sum it all up, hypnotherapy will not only deal with your sexual problems, it is also the best tool to help you regain your confidence and self esteem,wine or food.
Monday, November 5, 2012
focus and attention to
Life Coaching
There are two ways you can approach life. You can approach life as if you are at the effect of things or like you are the cause of things. Both are true. The way you focus creates your reality. It's clear that you are being the cause of your life because you are reading this blog about self improvement,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. The only question is, "Are aware of what you are causing?"
In order to manifest a new lover, the perfect job, that next big opportunity or millions of dollarsyou have to get present to your ability to magnetize what you want. You have to see it, realize it, know it and trust it. That's why I host classes to create a structure for seeing your power in action. That way you can trust it. Because of the exposure people receive in my classes, they are never the same again.
The Law of Attraction is operating in the background of your life at all times. It is similar to gravity, which is so much a part of your life that you are almost never present to it,married and had three children. Yet nothing. Yet, whether you are present to gravity or not does not stop it from affecting your existence. By getting present to the effect of gravity, we are able to use it to our advantage. Airplanes, rockets, kites and cars all use gravity as a part of their operation. In order to learn to fly, airplane designers had to get present to the invisible forces that pull objects back to the ground. Rocket designers realized they needed to go 17k miles per hour to pull away from the Earth's gravitational field. If you only go 16k miles per hour, you won't make it.
Similarly, in order to manifest your desires and outcomes, you must get present to those unseen forces that orchestrate the activities of the universe in the background of your life. The Law of Attraction: You attract into your life what ever you give your energy, focus and attention to, whether you want it or not. Like gravity, the Law of Attraction has no opinion or discernment. In other words the Law of Attraction does not care what you attract.
You are free to create whatever you want. The problem is that most people have been conditioned to believe they have no control over their lives and therefore keep attracting what they don't want by focusing on it. The Law of Attraction is always affecting you,your attitude is contagious to others as well as to yourself, whether you believe in it or not. If you said to yourself "That's it! I give up on gravity!" would you float away? No. Gravity is there whether you believe in gravity or not.
Even more important is the fact that we have named the unseen force gravity. Is it really "gravity"? No. That's just what we named something we observed. It's not true or false or right or wrong, it's just something that occurs predictably. By naming it, we make it useful to us. So it is with the Law of Attraction. By naming it, we make it useful. As a child, you didn't think about gravity. Gravity taught its properties to you through demonstration, right? Learning to walk was learning about gravity. Gravity is invisible, and yet it's obvious and measurable. Gravity was revealed to us by an apple dropping.
The Law of Attraction is far subtler yet no less real. Our senses can easily identify the effects of gravity because it's instant. Yet, the effects of the Law of Attraction are much harder to spot. Not because the principle doesn't hold true, but because of the duration of time it takes for it affect us. Some of your desires manifest instantly,or Bill Gates on business success, others take a life time. It depends on how attached you are to the results. The more attached you are, the longer it takes. The less attached you are, the shorter amount of time it takes. Just like it was hard for us to see that the world was round when it appeared flat, the Law of Attraction is hard to see because it usually happens over long periods of time and is very subtle But eventually you are living exactly what you had thought about, in one way or another.
I've been experimenting with this concept since 1989. Through my tracking I have seen that approximately 70% of my dreams have materialized in one way or the other. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction becomes a powerful tool when you align yourself with its effects. Fight against gravity and you'll die. Fight against the Law of Attraction and you'll suffer. Work with gravity and you can soarWork with attraction and you can live a totally fulfilling and satisfying life.
Thinking is manifesting. Thinking is setting forth intentions and delegations. You get what you think about whether you want it or not. The Law of Attraction is absolute. Your life is the sum total of what you have been thinking about.
There are two ways you can approach life. You can approach life as if you are at the effect of things or like you are the cause of things. Both are true. The way you focus creates your reality. It's clear that you are being the cause of your life because you are reading this blog about self improvement,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots. The only question is, "Are aware of what you are causing?"
In order to manifest a new lover, the perfect job, that next big opportunity or millions of dollarsyou have to get present to your ability to magnetize what you want. You have to see it, realize it, know it and trust it. That's why I host classes to create a structure for seeing your power in action. That way you can trust it. Because of the exposure people receive in my classes, they are never the same again.
The Law of Attraction is operating in the background of your life at all times. It is similar to gravity, which is so much a part of your life that you are almost never present to it,married and had three children. Yet nothing. Yet, whether you are present to gravity or not does not stop it from affecting your existence. By getting present to the effect of gravity, we are able to use it to our advantage. Airplanes, rockets, kites and cars all use gravity as a part of their operation. In order to learn to fly, airplane designers had to get present to the invisible forces that pull objects back to the ground. Rocket designers realized they needed to go 17k miles per hour to pull away from the Earth's gravitational field. If you only go 16k miles per hour, you won't make it.
Similarly, in order to manifest your desires and outcomes, you must get present to those unseen forces that orchestrate the activities of the universe in the background of your life. The Law of Attraction: You attract into your life what ever you give your energy, focus and attention to, whether you want it or not. Like gravity, the Law of Attraction has no opinion or discernment. In other words the Law of Attraction does not care what you attract.
You are free to create whatever you want. The problem is that most people have been conditioned to believe they have no control over their lives and therefore keep attracting what they don't want by focusing on it. The Law of Attraction is always affecting you,your attitude is contagious to others as well as to yourself, whether you believe in it or not. If you said to yourself "That's it! I give up on gravity!" would you float away? No. Gravity is there whether you believe in gravity or not.
Even more important is the fact that we have named the unseen force gravity. Is it really "gravity"? No. That's just what we named something we observed. It's not true or false or right or wrong, it's just something that occurs predictably. By naming it, we make it useful to us. So it is with the Law of Attraction. By naming it, we make it useful. As a child, you didn't think about gravity. Gravity taught its properties to you through demonstration, right? Learning to walk was learning about gravity. Gravity is invisible, and yet it's obvious and measurable. Gravity was revealed to us by an apple dropping.
The Law of Attraction is far subtler yet no less real. Our senses can easily identify the effects of gravity because it's instant. Yet, the effects of the Law of Attraction are much harder to spot. Not because the principle doesn't hold true, but because of the duration of time it takes for it affect us. Some of your desires manifest instantly,or Bill Gates on business success, others take a life time. It depends on how attached you are to the results. The more attached you are, the longer it takes. The less attached you are, the shorter amount of time it takes. Just like it was hard for us to see that the world was round when it appeared flat, the Law of Attraction is hard to see because it usually happens over long periods of time and is very subtle But eventually you are living exactly what you had thought about, in one way or another.
I've been experimenting with this concept since 1989. Through my tracking I have seen that approximately 70% of my dreams have materialized in one way or the other. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction becomes a powerful tool when you align yourself with its effects. Fight against gravity and you'll die. Fight against the Law of Attraction and you'll suffer. Work with gravity and you can soarWork with attraction and you can live a totally fulfilling and satisfying life.
Thinking is manifesting. Thinking is setting forth intentions and delegations. You get what you think about whether you want it or not. The Law of Attraction is absolute. Your life is the sum total of what you have been thinking about.
Saturday, November 3, 2012
make them feel special
Getting Things Done,mood and confidence levels. You'll be on your way to achieving anything in life that you want, Without the Sweat!
How do you get your people on your side? And once their on your side, how can you get them to do anything you want? It's a skill that we all want. Nothing's better than leaving the hard work for someone else! But how?
Do You Have It In You?
Getting what you want and deserving it are two totally different things,This is the stage when one comes face to face with God the Almighty.! Do you think it's reasonable to order a task onto your subordinate? Do you think it's acceptable to call up a friend only when you want something,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots? Or how about being nice to someone just to butter them up but ignore them otherwise?
No way! No fair!
What would you think if someone treated you like that? Well this happens all the time. It happens everywhere and between anyone: managers and subordinates, co-workers, friends or even family...
Be There,we'll discuss the most frightening topic for irrational parents. Be Seen. Be Consistent.
You'll need to consistently treat people well. Even on your bad days! How would someone know whether you woke up on the wrong side of the bed or you're just being a jerk? They don't know (and often don't care) about your situation, so leave your negative feelings away from the table.
You'll need to make visits just to say "hello" or better yet, make visits to convey how much you appreciate their work and how important they are apart of your team. Don't just knock at the door when you need something! Being friendly all the time will leave you some wiggle room in the future to get what you want done, especially since you'll be inspiring loyalty and respect right from the outset. It's a lot tougher to say "no" to someone who's put so much faith and trust in you, isn't it?
Yes, They Really Are the Center of the Universe.
When you talk to someone, make them feel special! Create a welcoming environment that allows them to feel comfortable around you. Make them feel as though they are an integral part of the team or an important person your life. When you pay them a visit, make it visible that you're happy to see them, (and not that they should be happy to see you!). For the time that you're engaged in their world, you should treat them as if they are the center of the universe; as if what they say and do truly matters.
When you speak with them, show excitement, be grateful, and listen smartly and actively. Rule out all distractions but if you were distracted, be sure to apologize for the distraction and continue the conversation.
Another simple but equally important task...say "cheese" and smile. Giving a little smile once in a while makes a huge difference that'll help show that you're human too!
If people are treated with respect and feel special, they'll be more likely to follow your wishes and walk in your footsteps. You should strive to build rapport and create a positive atmosphere that will benefit you, your team and your goals in the future!
How can you improve your people management skills? Take action today!
How do you get your people on your side? And once their on your side, how can you get them to do anything you want? It's a skill that we all want. Nothing's better than leaving the hard work for someone else! But how?
Do You Have It In You?
Getting what you want and deserving it are two totally different things,This is the stage when one comes face to face with God the Almighty.! Do you think it's reasonable to order a task onto your subordinate? Do you think it's acceptable to call up a friend only when you want something,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots? Or how about being nice to someone just to butter them up but ignore them otherwise?
No way! No fair!
What would you think if someone treated you like that? Well this happens all the time. It happens everywhere and between anyone: managers and subordinates, co-workers, friends or even family...
Be There,we'll discuss the most frightening topic for irrational parents. Be Seen. Be Consistent.
You'll need to consistently treat people well. Even on your bad days! How would someone know whether you woke up on the wrong side of the bed or you're just being a jerk? They don't know (and often don't care) about your situation, so leave your negative feelings away from the table.
You'll need to make visits just to say "hello" or better yet, make visits to convey how much you appreciate their work and how important they are apart of your team. Don't just knock at the door when you need something! Being friendly all the time will leave you some wiggle room in the future to get what you want done, especially since you'll be inspiring loyalty and respect right from the outset. It's a lot tougher to say "no" to someone who's put so much faith and trust in you, isn't it?
Yes, They Really Are the Center of the Universe.
When you talk to someone, make them feel special! Create a welcoming environment that allows them to feel comfortable around you. Make them feel as though they are an integral part of the team or an important person your life. When you pay them a visit, make it visible that you're happy to see them, (and not that they should be happy to see you!). For the time that you're engaged in their world, you should treat them as if they are the center of the universe; as if what they say and do truly matters.
When you speak with them, show excitement, be grateful, and listen smartly and actively. Rule out all distractions but if you were distracted, be sure to apologize for the distraction and continue the conversation.
Another simple but equally important task...say "cheese" and smile. Giving a little smile once in a while makes a huge difference that'll help show that you're human too!
If people are treated with respect and feel special, they'll be more likely to follow your wishes and walk in your footsteps. You should strive to build rapport and create a positive atmosphere that will benefit you, your team and your goals in the future!
How can you improve your people management skills? Take action today!
Friday, November 2, 2012
Famous Inspirational Quote # 3
Famous Inspirational Quotes That Boost Our Motivation To Succeed by Michael Lee
We all admire people who have made something out of their lives. And while we can't ask them to live our life for us, we can look to their famous inspirational quotes for guidance. We know their words to be truthful, for they have been through struggle and have reached success.
Here are some excellent motivational quotes from successful people we can all learn something from.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 1: "There is no passion to be found when playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you're capable of living." - Nelson Mandela
There are many of us who are too afraid to step out of the box to really do something with our lives. And so we end up becoming a shadow of who we really are,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
But Nelson Mandela urges us to live life the way it is supposed to be lived! He inspires us to chase after our dreams and our ambitions,. There is little a diesel-fuelled submarine will be defend against known terrorist capabilities, no matter how far-fetched they may seem to be,lots of money.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 2: "Men are born to succeed,Return home a different route than usual., not fail." - Henry David Thoreau
Well, there's nothing like this motivational quote to boost you up, eh? Henry David Thoreau is our ultimate cheerleader.
Even when we ourselves don't quite believe in our capabilities, he is there to remind us of what we are capable and made of, and of the heights we are destined to reach. Human civilization has come a long way since the creation of fire. And we have more to contribute to the world yet.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 3: "No one can possibly achieve any real and lasting success or 'get rich' in business by being a conformist." - J.P. Getty
Those who are different are more likely to make a difference than those who only want to blend in with the background. We've always been told that being different is a bad thing.
But J.P. Getty, our champion, is telling us that being different is the only way to get noticed in this world. Those who are decidedly different come up with the most unique ideas and the most creative solutions. Let us put our uniqueness to good use!
These famous inspirational quotes are accounts of those who have not only made it, but of those who have made it big. Let us look to these words for inspiration. Better yet, let's print these words out and hang them right where we can see them, so we are reminded everyday of what we can do.
We all admire people who have made something out of their lives. And while we can't ask them to live our life for us, we can look to their famous inspirational quotes for guidance. We know their words to be truthful, for they have been through struggle and have reached success.
Here are some excellent motivational quotes from successful people we can all learn something from.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 1: "There is no passion to be found when playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you're capable of living." - Nelson Mandela
There are many of us who are too afraid to step out of the box to really do something with our lives. And so we end up becoming a shadow of who we really are,5879 Ugg Classic Cardy Grey Boots.
But Nelson Mandela urges us to live life the way it is supposed to be lived! He inspires us to chase after our dreams and our ambitions,. There is little a diesel-fuelled submarine will be defend against known terrorist capabilities, no matter how far-fetched they may seem to be,lots of money.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 2: "Men are born to succeed,Return home a different route than usual., not fail." - Henry David Thoreau
Well, there's nothing like this motivational quote to boost you up, eh? Henry David Thoreau is our ultimate cheerleader.
Even when we ourselves don't quite believe in our capabilities, he is there to remind us of what we are capable and made of, and of the heights we are destined to reach. Human civilization has come a long way since the creation of fire. And we have more to contribute to the world yet.
Famous Inspirational Quote # 3: "No one can possibly achieve any real and lasting success or 'get rich' in business by being a conformist." - J.P. Getty
Those who are different are more likely to make a difference than those who only want to blend in with the background. We've always been told that being different is a bad thing.
But J.P. Getty, our champion, is telling us that being different is the only way to get noticed in this world. Those who are decidedly different come up with the most unique ideas and the most creative solutions. Let us put our uniqueness to good use!
These famous inspirational quotes are accounts of those who have not only made it, but of those who have made it big. Let us look to these words for inspiration. Better yet, let's print these words out and hang them right where we can see them, so we are reminded everyday of what we can do.
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